
Do you think that the way men show their love changes once married and sometimes woman can mistake this as not being loved?? Meaning the love isn't as romantic but more providing for them and the family but the love is no less?
So how men show love ?
Somehow women are able to keep their love constant and share it with their children and not have a decrease for what they feel or show towards their husbands. Perhaps they are motivated more by emotions and feelings as compared to men.
Some men straggle to show love and romance in the way a woman wants it. The push is on during courtship to win the affection. When the marriage takes place and the prize is theirs, it falls into a maintenance role. When you win a race, you don't always run to keep the trophy, the race is over, you just keep the trophy polished and love it as much as the day you won it.
Unfortunately it doesn't quite work the same in a human relationship, but that doesn't stop men from having that mentality.
Men have a harder time dividing their affection between all the family members than do the wives, not sure why, but it's a struggle for me to show my love to all the family members. I sometimes feel that I have to take from one to give to the other because I only have so much love to give.
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